RIP Daisy May

Daisy May was a regular on our fanpage. Her mother, Paula Dickenson, would share photos quite frequently of Daisy and her family sitting in front of their fireplace in their rural home in Miller, Missouri. Last week, Daisy got her angel wings. She got out and wandered into the neighbors yard where her neighbor decided to shoot her 6 times. He insisted that his life was in danger, but anybody who knew Daisy knew that she was a gentle and loving dog. No where from the time Daisy entered his property to the time he decided to fire his weapon did she pose any threat to anybody.

This is what loving pit bull owners have to deal with. A world consumed by fear and hatred for innocent animals, and sick people who want retribution against all pit bulls for crimes they did not commit.

We will keep you updated on this story as more information becomes available to us.

For now here is a poem by our friend Brian Richter in honor of Daisy May:

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” R.I.P and RUN FREE Daisy May ”

To my dearest family,
some things I’d like to say.
But first of all, to let you know,
that I arrived okay.

I’m writing this from the Bridge.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here there’s no more tears of sadness.
Here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy
just because I’m out of sight.
Remember that I am with you
every morning, noon and night.

That day I had to leave you
when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me
and He said, “I welcome you.

It’s good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family,
They’ll be here later on.”

God gave me a list of things,
that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list,
was to watch and care for you.

And when you lie in bed at night
the day’s chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you…
in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth,
and all those loving years,
because you are only human,
they are bound to bring you tears.

But do not be afraid to cry:
it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers,
unless there were some rain.

I wish that I could tell you
all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you,
you wouldn’t understand.

But one thing is for certain,
though my life on earth is o’er.
I’m closer to you now,
than I ever was before.

There are rocky roads ahead of you
and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it
by taking one day at a time.

It was always my philosophy
and I’d like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world,
the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody
who’s in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night…
“My day was not in vain.”

And now I am contented…
that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along
I made somebody smile.

God says: “If you meet somebody
who is sad and feeling low;
Just lend a hand to pick him up,
as on your way you go.

When you’re walking down the street
with me on your mind;
I’m walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind.”

“And when it’s time for you to go…
from that body to be free.
Remember you’re not going…
you’re coming here to me.”
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Paula we are so very sorry for your loss, and our thoughts and prayers are with you…

 

 

 

 

 

Halloween Hoax


(photo by hqbullies)

If you’re a pit bull lover, and you’re on facebook, you’ve probably seen a letter circulating the web that warns pit bull owners to keep their dogs inside on Halloween because someone has arbitrarily declared the Holiday Kill a Pit Bull Day.  According to snopes.com, it was a hoax that began a few years ago, nevertheless it has people worried about walking their dogs on Halloween Night. Someone may see the “hoax” letter and think to him/herself that it’s actually a good idea….

The reality is that there are dangers on Halloween Night that typically transcend those of ordinary nights (vandalism, theft, and sexual assault) especially in neighborhoods where crime is typically low. We are well aware that the holiday presents opportunities for criminals as well as challenges to our safety. With the help of local law enforcement and community watch groups, scrutiny of criminal acts and security against criminal behavior is always enhanced. By no means does that indicate that all risks are removed, but to believe that there is some network of pit bull killers out on the prowl on Halloween is a bit silly.

Don’t allow a hoax, or even real hate groups, to deter you from experiencing the wonder of the holiday. Being pit bull owners, we have developed a thicker skin and a sharper focus. It is completely out of character for us to run and hide because of some nonsensical letter that has been posted ad infinitum on social medias. We always advise people to protect their pit bulls as much as humanly possible no matter what the situation, and always be prepared to encounter realistic threats in a sane manner. However, when we dwell on worst case scenarios that are fictitious, we lose sight of what really harms our bullies — Breed Specific Legislation, discrimination, politics against pit bulls, illegal dog fighting, animal theft, over breeding, lack of awareness, lack of adoption, etc.

These are the issues we should be sharing like wild fire on facebook and twitter.

If you’re still uncomfortable, that’s fine, just make sure you throw your pibbles a nice halloween party indoors! 🙂

Safety Tips

  • Never allow your dog to play with or consume foreign objects that may be hazardous
  • Never let random people feed your dog anything, even if they appear to be friendly
  • Walk your dog with another person with you or in a group if possible
  • Carry a cellphone in case of emergency
  • Carry pepper spray (or Halt Spray) if you’re by yourself
  • Do not walk your dog in areas that you’re unfamiliar with
  • Always be prepared to intervene if another dog or animal attacks your dog

Responsible Ownership

So you’ve decided to get a pit bull for the first time or perhaps you’ve had them all of your life? Whatever the case may be, the reality of owning a pit bull means that you’ve inherited a unique opportunity to do a great service to a very socially misunderstood breed. You’ve also inherited a controversy that, whether you like it or not, you’re going to eventually have to cope with. By this time you are more than likely familiar with the arguments and debates that surround this amazing animal. What you may not know is how important your individual involvement with the breed is to the overall community. You’ve probably heard the expression “It’s not the dog, it’s the owner” more times than you can recall, and though we hate to torment a cliche, it is still absolutely true. The outcome of raising any animal depends primarily on you, the owner.

We believe that the pit bull has suffered an unfair reputation, and likewise way too many good owners have endured unjustifiable discrimination because of that reputation, but the truth is that there are still owners today who are neglectful, irresponsible, and even abusive to their pit bulls. We need to create a safe, loving environment for every family and dog that comprises each neighborhood we live in. We need to know how to protect our pit bulls and how to minimize the risks that they will encounter. Have you ever walked by the house where there were numerous dogs left unattended in a yard for hours at a time? The people who do not care if their dogs escape and threaten other animals? Dogs who are neglected and left untreated and unloved? It all changes if that dog is a pit bull, regardless of how unjust this may be, it is nevertheless true. These are the people who loan their support to the negative reputation that exist with pit bulls. It isn’t fair to those who are good owners, it’s just simply what happens in the minds of spectators when terrible owners have pit bulls and let them become a menace. All it takes is one mistreated pit bull in one neighborhood to attack one dog or person, and the media can begin fanning the flames of misconception…and all of the myths and exaggerations that we fight adamantly against are given some kind of validity to those who do not know much about pit bulls. This is the condition we face as pit bull owners– We will ALL take a hit every time someone else allows their pit bull to do harm.

So if you have a pit bull that is anxious and/or aggressive to other dogs, make sure that they are protected. Make sure that the fence doesn’t have escape routes. Make sure they are on leash if in public, even in front yards or areas where you suspect they will not run away. Far too often we hear stories about a pit bull attacking a smaller dog who just happened to be walking through the neighborhood. Pit bulls are highly emotional, loyal animals and it is very rare that they will show aggression toward humans, but it does not mean they will not attack other wildlife. So it is your duty to make sure that you are keeping them safe by removing these hazards from their lives. Exercise control and caution at all times with any animal that you own. You cannot predict a speeding car or a loose animal or whatever else, so make sure your safeguards are set in place.  Having a pit bull is a lot of fun and a lot of work, so if you’re not up for the challenge, don’t accept it.

By this point you may be thinking, “this description doesn’t fit me, I am a good owner!” Rest assured, we understand. However, we owe it to ourselves and to the breed we love so much to call attention to these matters. If there is someone in your neighborhood who neglects, abuses or lets their dogs roam free, then they need to be questioned. You do not have to go knock on the door yourself and pick a fight, but there are resources locally who will intervene for you. Report them to the neighborhood association, etc. In our experience, people who have a tendency to abuse animals aren’t the types to heed casual suggestions, so having someone with authority tell them what to do is perfectly acceptable.